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		<title>Bar Magic Tricks, Stunts &amp; Pranks</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Practical Bar Magic, includes tried and tested magic tricks from years of working as a professional restaurant magician. Over one hour of epic, memorable, Bar Magic. Learn how to do tricks with props found behind your bar... [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://tip20.barstore.com/volume-4-practical-bar-magic-p-1867.html"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1638" title="bartender_magic_tricks" src="http://www.tip20.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/bartender_magic_tricks.png" alt="bartender magic tricks Bar Magic Tricks, Stunts & Pranks" width="185" height="234" /></a>Dean Serneel has created an excellent <a title="Learn flair bartending and magic tricks" href="http://tip20.barstore.com/volume-4-practical-bar-magic-p-1867.html">4 Volume DVD</a> set which is all you need to become an expert in the bar tending industry. Each disc is packed with step by step techniques and vital training information. Special Features include: trailers, short videos, and bonus footage. The Menus are broken down into specific categories, so your not wasting time looking for the content you need to see.</p>
<p>Volume 4, <a title="How to do bartender magic tricks" href="http://tip20.barstore.com/volume-4-practical-bar-magic-p-1867.html">Practical Bar Magic</a>, includes tried and tested magic tricks from years of working as a professional restaurant magician. Over one hour of epic, memorable, Bar Magic. Learn how to do tricks with props found behind your bar. Slow motion step by step instructions of over 25 different tricks. Learn the Floating Shaker Tin, make a Lit Cigarette disappear, and how to Steal Watches right of the arms of your guests. This disk is perfect for anyone working the wood.</p>
<p>This is not only a super way to improve your tips and customer loyalty, it&#8217;s loads of fun at parties too!</p>
<p>To get more information, see video clips or purchase <a title="Bartender and Waiter Magic Tricks" href="http://tip20.barstore.com/volume-4-practical-bar-magic-p-1867.html">Practical Bar Magic click here!</a></p>
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		<title>Be a Professional Flair Bartender or Just Look Like One</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 21:43:47 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>We have decided to occasionally feature a product from our extensive <a title="Tip20! Professional and Home Bar Supplies" href="http://tip20.barstore.com/">Tip20! Bar Store</a> now and then.</p>
<div id="attachment_1115" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://tip20.barstore.com/flair-briefcase-tool-p-5309.html"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1115 " title="flair_stuff" src="http://www.tip20.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/flair_stuff-300x206.png" alt="flair stuff 300x206 Be a Professional Flair Bartender or Just Look Like One" width="300" height="206" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Found in the Flair Briefcase Tool Kit</p></div>
<p>Today we are featuring our &#8220;Top of the Line&#8221; <a title="Flair Bartending Briefcase" href="http://tip20.barstore.com/flair-briefcase-tool-p-5309.html">Flair Briefcase Tool Kit</a>.</p>
<p>If you are a Flair bartender then you know how important it is you keep  your gear in tact and easily toted from one gig to the next. This  professional flair bartenders tote is not only equipped with flair  appropriate tools, but it is perfect for easy transportation.</p>
<p>The Bar-Tote is a durable, all-black, water-resistant, nylon tote  designed to carry an assortment of bartending and personal items. It  measures in at 14&#8243;W 12&#8243;L 4.5&#8243;D and has 16 compartments varying in size  to fit your every bar tool need from jiggers and shakers, to calculators  and asprin. This large bar tote comes equipped with easy carry handles  and a removable strap for shoulder carry.</p>
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<div id="attachment_1116" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 268px"></strong><strong><a href="http://tip20.barstore.com/flair-briefcase-tool-p-5309.html"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1116 " title="flair-bag-kit-bs" src="http://www.tip20.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/flair-bag-kit-bs-258x300.jpg" alt="flair bag kit bs 258x300 Be a Professional Flair Bartender or Just Look Like One" width="258" height="300" /></a></strong><p class="wp-caption-text">Flair Briefcase Tool Kit</p></div>
<p>Contents of the Flair Tool Bag Kit</p>
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<li> 3 &#8211; 28 oz Weighted Powdercoated Neon Yellow Shaker Tins</li>
<li> 16 oz Mixing Glass</li>
<li> Powdercoated Neon Yellow 4-Prong Strainer</li>
<li> Powdercoated Neon Yellow Speed Opener w/ Magnetic Clip</li>
<li> Jigger (.5 x 1)</li>
<li> 3 Piece 28 oz Stainless Steel Shaker</li>
<li> 2 Practice Flair Bottles</li>
<li> Stainless Steel Fruit / Ice Tongs</li>
<li> Stainless Steel Muddler</li>
<li> Citrus Press (Chrome)</li>
<li> Fruit / Twist Knife with Blade</li>
<li> Utility Knife</li>
<li> Shaker Grip Tape (Red)</li>
<li> 2 Lighters</li>
<li> Julep Strainer</li>
<li> Double Lever Corckscrew</li>
<li> Light Up Pen</li>
<li> Black Shaker Mat</li>
<li> 5 Black Tapered Metal Pourers</li>
<li> Stainless Steel Ice Scoop</li>
<li> Neon Yellow Pour Check</li>
<li> Stainless Steel Bar Spoon</li>
<li> Gold Martini Mister</li>
<li> Bar Products Black Towel</li>
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<p><strong>Believe it or not <a title="Flair Bartender Supplies" href="http://tip20.barstore.com/flair-briefcase-tool-p-5309.html">ALL OF THIS INCLUDED</a> for only: <span style="color: #ff0000;">$119.94</span>!</strong></p>
<p>Arrive at work or the party, make an impression and show off your stuff.</p>
<p><a title="Flair Bartending Packages" href="http://tip20.barstore.com/package-specials-c-58.html">See more info and options here.</a></p>
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		<title>Getting Started in Flair Bartending&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jan 2008 05:16:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ <p></p> <p>by David Neeson</p> <p>So now I&#8217;ve popped my cherry on writing for Tip20! and chose the topic of &#8216;starting to flair bartend.&#8217; That isn&#8217;t something I wanted to do, for fear of those readers thinking that I ONLY care about flair bar tending, but it needs talked about sometime.</p> <p>Let me get some [...]]]></description>
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<p>by David Neeson</p>
<p>So now I&#8217;ve popped my cherry on writing for <a href="http://tip20.com" title="Tip20! Service Industry Resource" target="_blank">Tip20!</a> and chose the topic of &#8216;starting to flair bartend.&#8217;  That isn&#8217;t something I wanted to do, for fear of those readers thinking that I ONLY care about flair bar tending, but it needs talked about sometime.</p>
<p>Let me get some facts out&#8230;  Fact One: Bartenders have egos&#8230; Fact Two: Bartenders can&#8217;t be behind their bar without confidence&#8230;  Fact Three: Bartenders need respect to do their job well and make enough money to survive&#8230;</p>
<p>Hopefully you will agree with all of these facts, so lets try to incorporate flair and see if we can&#8217;t tie these together&#8230;<br />
Fact One: Egos.  How do you learn flair when obviously you won&#8217;t be the best at the beginning&#8230; Well this takes the idea of checking your ego before starting your journey&#8230; Know that you won&#8217;t be the best flair bartender in the world&#8230;   Know that no amount of practice will make you the best flair bartender in the world&#8230;  Know all of that, because being the best flair bartender in the world is an opinionated statement that can never be proved&#8230;   But also know that you might be the best flair bartender to your regulars&#8230;  That&#8217;s what&#8217;s important&#8230; It doesn&#8217;t mean stop practicing when someone says, &#8220;Hey, you&#8217;re the best bartender I&#8217;ve ever seen.&#8221;   It just means that when you hear that, you&#8217;ve arrived at a point where your practice has paid off&#8230;<br />
The other thing is KNOW THAT EVERYONE STARTED SOMEWHERE.  I can&#8217;t stress that enough&#8230; There isn&#8217;t a soul alive who came out of their mom and ran to the nursery&#8230; You learned to crawl before you walked, and that&#8217;s the same concept that makes you good at flair&#8230;</p>
<p>Where to start.  Well find someone who is seasoned at the sport (yes it&#8217;s a sport, you can compete in it, you can win money, and some people have been able to live off that alone, much like EVERY other sport in this world)&#8230;   If you&#8217;re in the twin cities, look up LiquidMotion.  The company was started by two local Minnesotans who both have contended against the best in the world and have earned the right to be called professional flair bartenders.   They are more than willing to teach.  Just visit their website at 4LiquidMotion.com.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re not in the twin cities area, look into the FBA, Flair Bar Association.  That&#8217;s how I learned.   The guys I met in Hawaii all were FBA members and used the website to negotiate practice times and places&#8230;<br />
Before you get too excited you should plan on having a bad back, because you WILL drop darn near everything you try to throw&#8230;   It&#8217;s not easy&#8230; I equate flair, when done correctly, to any other professional sport.  Basketball players practice daily.  Sure they&#8217;ve hit a free throw before, but when they practice, they don&#8217;t stop when they hit one basket.   They try to practice until they can&#8217;t miss&#8230;  The same is true with flair&#8230;</p>
<p>This brings up Fact Two: Bartenders can&#8217;t be behind their bar without confidence.  You gain confidence with practice behind closed doors&#8230; I, along with most flair bartenders, have spent more time practicing than bartending, but that&#8217;s because I don&#8217;t want to look bad behind MY bar&#8230; I don&#8217;t get paid for practicing, but practicing gains confidence in trying the move behind my bar&#8230;   They&#8217;re inseparable&#8230;</p>
<p>Confidence will also allow you to poke fun at mistakes&#8230; Christian Delpech, who is the 8-time World Champion, and bartends in Las Vegas at Carnival Court outside Harrah&#8217;s casino, drops tins/bottles/and spills during every shift.   Why???  Because he&#8217;s human&#8230; Gravity kicks in at odd times, but he&#8217;s so confident in his abilities, as he should be, that he&#8217;s able to just smile and laugh it off&#8230; Sure he looked bad at that one time, but he knows his talent level, and he knows that being human comes with making mistakes, but he doesn&#8217;t allow people to jump on them&#8230;</p>
<p>That slowly incorporates the third fact, that bartenders need respect to do their jobs well and make enough money to survive&#8230; Guests can smell fear and dejection&#8230; So what you dropped a bottle, if every NASCAR driver who wrecked quit on the spot, who&#8217;d be left to race????   You&#8217;ll gain respect by letting your guest in on the experience&#8230; Tell them you&#8217;re worried about trying a move, but you&#8217;ve hit it before and feel confident to try it now at your bar&#8230; It lets them know that YOU trust them enough to bring them into YOUR night as well&#8230;</p>
<p>If by now you&#8217;re thinking that flair might be for you, then start looking for someone to teach ya&#8230; Be mindful that they might charge you more at first, then once they see your devotion, you become a comrade and can learn just be hanging out in a practice studio (which also might cost, but think of it as a gym membership)&#8230; I can&#8217;t tell you how many people have said they want to learn, and after I dedicated hours to teaching, they&#8217;ve given it up because it&#8217;s too hard&#8230; Well what happens with those hours I spent teaching&#8230; My time spent is just as valuable as professors at universities or any other teachers one might need or use&#8230;   Before paying them to teach you, see their credentials, make sure they have earned the right to teach before they take money; that&#8217;ll also make sure you know what you&#8217;re getting yourself into&#8230;<br />
Flair is an amazing talent, and when done correctly can enhance any bar or restaurant, but the same is true for it being devastating when done wrong&#8230; The least you can do for your fellow bartenders who&#8217;ve dedicated their lives to flair is do it right or don&#8217;t do it at all&#8230;   Everyone wants the outcome, but few can endure the work that comes with getting their&#8230; Become that small percentage&#8230;</p>
<p>Cheers,<br />
-Dave&#8230;</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[ <p>Tip20! Welcomes professional flair bartender David Neeson. Dave has skill, tallent and a personality that won&#8217;t quit. We eagerly look forward to Dave&#8217;s contributions and insight on the world of bartending from basic drink mixing to some of the real tricky stuff. We are certain that professional bartenders and home bartenders alike with glean [...]]]></description>
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<p><img src="http://www.tip20.com/div/bar/articles/neeson/dave_neeson.jpg" alt="dave neeson New Tip20! Contributor..." align="left" height="110" width="80" title="New Tip20! Contributor..." />Tip20! Welcomes professional flair bartender <a href="http://www.tip20.com/div/bar/articles/neeson/intro.html">David Neeson</a>. Dave has skill, tallent and a personality that won&#8217;t quit. We eagerly look forward to Dave&#8217;s contributions and insight on the world of bartending from basic drink mixing to some of the real tricky stuff. We are certain that professional bartenders and home bartenders alike with glean some great information from Dave. <a href="http://www.tip20.com/div/bar/articles/neeson/intro.html">Meet Dave here&#8230;</a></p>
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		<title>Why I Bartend&#8230;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bartending can be fun. Bartending SHOULD be fun. Aside from the flair aspect, which I plan on talking about later, bartending should be a job people look forward to... [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><em><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-662" title="dave_neeson" src="http://www.tip20.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/dave_neeson.jpg" alt="dave neeson Why I Bartend..." width="80" height="110" />by David Neeson &#8211; Tip20! Contributer</em></p>
<p>My name is David. I remember growing up looking at people who have &#8216;fun&#8217; jobs and being jealous.  I was 10 when I first went to a go-kart track and saw this guy whose entire job is to just sit outside and be around go-karts ALL DAY LONG&#8230; How awesome was that?   I mean he&#8217;s not in an office, or in the back scrubbing toilets, he&#8217;s around fun go-karts just sitting around and occasionally jumping on the back of a kart and riding it for a bit. Most important thing is he&#8217;s outside around people when THEY are having fun&#8230;</p>
<p>It took me awhile, but seven years later I became that guy.  I worked at a Family Fun Center for two years working the go-karts.   By now you&#8217;re probably thinking, &#8220;What does this have to do with bartending???&#8221;  Well hold on, because it was around that same time that I went into a TGI Fridays and saw a bartender who had the entire crowd laughing, cheering, and genuinely enjoying themselves.   It was at that exact moment that I found my new &#8216;fun&#8217; job to strive for.</p>
<p>I left Indiana and went to college at the University of Dayton, in Ohio.  Sure I left my family and friends a state away, but I never forgot that feeling in the bar as a teenager. I wanted to be that guy who had the crowd cheering, and remembered that he was doing &#8216;flair&#8217; behind his bar and owning every inch of it.  I didn&#8217;t know at the time how hated flair is to bartenders, all I knew is how much fun I had watching it.   Within the first two months at Dayton, I found a group of jugglers and learned how to juggle with the specific idea of applying it to bottles later in life.  Even though learning to juggle was a big step in my life, I was too scared to say anything about my hopes to family and friends, because it just seemed silly.  This brings me to another point I want to make: The ONE thing I would like to accomplish by this post is giving hope to those who enjoy something, not to be scared to strive to get it done, no passion is stupid…</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-663" title="dave_barback" src="http://www.tip20.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/dave_barback.jpg" alt="dave barback Why I Bartend..." width="200" height="147" />My second year at Dayton I left on a study abroad program to Hawaii.  I was only 20 but thought I was the best flair bartender in the WORLD.   I soon found guys who showed me otherwise and taught me the art; yes I said art, of flair bartending.  I can truly pinpoint my passion for bartending, and flair, to that moment in my life.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been several years since and I&#8217;m still growing and learning every day.  Flair bartending aside, bartending is still an art.   Not everyone can walk into a bar and own every inch of that bar top.  I&#8217;ve heard the saying over and over, &#8220;I can teach a monkey how to pour a drink, but I can&#8217;t teach anyone how to bartend.&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard to look someone in the eye when they&#8217;re having a bad day, and get them to trust you enough in the five minutes you&#8217;ve known them, to tell you why their day isn&#8217;t going well.<br />
I&#8217;m here to talk about bartending.  So my first question to those who&#8217;ve cared enough to read this far is, Why do you bartend?   This isn&#8217;t meant to call into question the monetary rewards bartending achieves, but this is more calling into question your dedication to the art&#8230;  So&#8230; Why?  Why do you bartend.  I do this because it&#8217;s the only job that no one is perfect at.  No one can go into a shift and truly have the exact same thing happen to them because everyday is something different&#8230;</p>
<p>If by now you&#8217;re tired of bartending, or don&#8217;t have the motivation to grow in the art, then sit down and think about what it was like for you the first time you saw a bartender who really made you feel good&#8230; I mean someone who probably wouldn&#8217;t be able to pick you out from a ham sandwich, but yet you still respect enough to trust them with your deepest secrets&#8230;</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-664" title="dave_dj_gf" src="http://www.tip20.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/dave_dj_gf.jpg" alt="dave dj gf Why I Bartend..." width="200" height="146" />Bartending can be fun.  Bartending SHOULD be fun.  Aside from the flair aspect, which I plan on talking about later, bartending should be a job people look forward to&#8230;   If your bar is gloomy, then take some action and be that one person who makes other people have fun&#8230; No one likes having a boring area to work, and fun can be contagious&#8230;</p>
<p>Well I&#8217;m going to end this with that same go-kart track that I worked at before bartending&#8230; It sucked&#8230; After the initial first week, it was boring and the same thing over and over while smelling gas fumes and dealing with yelling children every day&#8230; The one thing that kept me going was that even though I got the same question asked, and same scenarios each day, it was with a different person and I couldn&#8217;t hold that against them&#8230;   I never knew if I was going to the next race with a child who looked up to me like I did that guy how ever many years ago, so I had to make it fun&#8230; After I did that, the fumes and yelling didn&#8217;t bother me quite as much&#8230;</p>
<p>Choose your work style&#8230;</p>
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